Challenging Stereotypes: Women's History Month
If you could reflect on one thing, it’s this:
What is the most common assumption people make about you?
Happy Women’s History Month!
This is week two of sharing reflections on what Women’s History Month represents and how it can serve as a loving reminder to share our own stories. 💛
One reason our history matters is that it helps us move beyond stereotypes and assumptions. When we learn about the lives of women from all walks of life, we begin to see how complex and nuanced those stories really are.
Our stories reveal that there is never just one way to be a woman.
For most of us navigating multiple identities (i.e., personal, cultural, or professional), assumptions can undoubtedly feel limiting (and annoying!). When these assumptions are chronic, it can even feel traumatizing. We ask ourselves, “Do I even belong here?”
Have others assumed you’re quiet when you actually have strong opinions?
Have others assumed you’re traditional when your life has taken an unconventional path?
Have others assume they already knew you the moment they found out that you were Filipino?
I have personally found that, when given the time and opportunity, sharing my story helps my relationships move past assumptions.
Depending on how they respond, I can see the fuller picture of that person, too. And often, I find that we have much more in common than we first thought.
This is one reason our show exists.
Our letters give us the space to provide the context that first impressions often miss.
Sometimes all it takes is one honest reflection to shift how someone understands us.
So this week, in celebration of Women’s History Month, I’m inviting you to reflect on this question:
What am I often mistaken for, and how can I provide people with more context?
If you’d like, you can start your reflection with a simple line:
“If I could say one thing about what people assume about me, it’s this...”
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💛 Jen
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